Sunday, May 07, 2006

Time to post...

Ahem...
I have'nt posted here in a while and still getting some undeserved attention I feel... :D
This blog has been made for us...to post our thoughts...ofcourse we talk...but somethings are better written...uninterrupted by others...

University time...most of you will be busy with studies...so no point in haggling people to post (though it takes around 15 minutes!)
I have got so far in my life that i didn't realise i had written more than 75 papers! Don't want to count...it makes me depressed to think about all supple, criti, supercriti (going to!) I have written...
Time flies by...

Never been in a close company as this...
Never was cared for by outsiders...I was always an outsider in any gang I was in...It sure feels good to be an insider now and even in the closer circles...
Never was people friendly... rather people took me to be unfriendly for granted...

I have been through a series of emotions after being in college...love (not your dilwale model!), angst, humour, pleasure, pain and even hate at times...
This was a period of self discovery for me...found out what people are like...learned how people are...learned some nuances of managing people. Too many 'people' in there? :P

If i can relive from the beginning...I have to say I was still in my shell till the last leg of our class...

I was close to Nitin, Pappu, Anand and Naveen in the first year...for others I was mostly an acqaintance...someone you would remember only when you see him again...

Sometimes being on the loosing side is good...for I got the best of my friends Hafeez and Dinkan after getting supple for EC lab...I thnk got closer to Kiran mainly because we were the only ones who flunked DS.
Hafeez is someone with whom I could rest my burden on. He has got a calming effect and he is a healer by birth. His friendship is something I would cherish for a very long time to come.
Dinkan is someone I have verbally abused a lot. But in my heart I have got a lot of love and respect for him. He is a friend who has always encouraged me and told me to cut the crap when it was required.

Sometimes being bad is good...good and bad are relative but bad according to our society is what I am talking about...got the chance to have some male bonding while getting drunk and getting high on cigarettes. Most of the guys...Pana, Sree, Kiran etc became closer over a period of being decadent...But decadence is simply an excuse for making some terrific friends.
Ofcourse me and Sree became more acquainted after our issue with the Mail Hacking and me and Kiran over the Saini Cartoon issue...

I always thrived on knowledge. Technology and Fiction were my solace and I could find just two people here who shared my tastes. Pappu and Divakar. They were people I could talk about stuff which would have made others slip of to a blissful siesta. Pappu and Me bonded over the stuff we did together. I always found him to be an excellent guy to work with. Who could realise my designs from the raw stuff I made and thought about.

Nitin and I became friends early. Some invisible bond I guess. There is no other person I communicate so well. (Its not the English!) We were one hell of a team- Nitin, Pappu and Me. A trinity of sorts. Me- the dreamer and the thought machine, Pappu- the implementor and Nitin- the controller aka the manager.

Naveen and Me were together for most labs and we worked pretty well together. His aggressive nature is something that brought me closer to him I think.

Anand and me go a long way back. He is an awesome person and we are really close friends. Always thankful to him for the good turns he did to me.

Nibin is someone I got along well from the beginning and probably the only person with whom I came close to a physical altercation these four years. (s4...duster wars...black shirt...spoiled...enough said!) We hanged out a lot and we became great friends over the periods of our journeys. Many an adventure and expolits we shared.

I really don't know when me and Jackie became close friends. May be it developed over time. But I really can't recall some incident or anything from the old days with him. I have been an advisor to him (dont know if it did any good or bad!) and he likewise to me. Been there for me when I needed support the most. One of my best friends needless to say.

Other guys I missed out? A lot of them. It doesn't mean I have deliberately missed them its just that I am getting tired of typing and the ladies are there to be filled in!
Special mention to Bonny and Rajappan. The Five and a half gang is something I would miss a lot.

Now to the ladies...
I used to be (am?) a hopelessly shy person when it comes to girls and probably that may be the reason for me being aloof from the fairer kind.
Probably there are very few girls I am good friends with.

Nisha and Maneesha comes first as I got acquainted through our various combined study efforts...the occasional periods of learning from curriculum for me. Then the labs in which we were together also helped us bond more.

Me and Ganu became friends rather very late...may be the end of s7 I think...But still I will miss her a lot. Afterall she is a lot to be missed! :-D
And she was the one person who took charge of this blog whenever the activity lessened...her last post prompted me to write this boring and lengthy post!

Dhanya was someone I was in touch to say due to our participation in various stuff in college. Been with her to couple of places for sponsorship and all. But the past one year or so has changed our relation a lot. She is probably one of the very few people who knows most about me. She has lent her ears to hear me rant and give me appropriate guidance when I required. She has been one great friend to me. One of the best.

Sulu and Anubecame friends with me after the last tour I guess. Will always miss them a great deal and a missed a great opportunity to have good friends over a longer period of time.

Paru and Jyothi were one of the reasons I never felt bored during the train trip. Their bubbliness was infectious to say the least. Paru shares a common thing with me. A very vivid imagination. Its just that she shows it off with no remorse while I am afraid to flaunt it due to the fear of being labelled. Enjoyed your company a lot dear.

I know I have not wriiten about many...Not due to lack of regards...rather due to my laziness and sleepiness at this time.
Will miss all of you people.
Never had many good friends in school.
Now I am rich in terms of it.
Atleast I think so...

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